You do notice those buggers who always give critiques whatever you do, good or bad, don't you? At least I do notice them. Most of the time they really really bug me. Well i mean i do a lot of things wrong but that doesn't give them justification to keep throwing rocks at me. Let alone those times when i actually did something right. I'm always considered as someone weird and absurd at school so this happens a lot to me. My dearest friends would tell me to just ignore them and move on. But you just simply can't ignore external stimulation can you? Especially if you're an introvert like me. So how are you suppose to get through this? This is how i do it.
1. Keep your head down and walk away or don't answer. This gives them affirmation that you aren't listening. That way, they'll think twice whenever they want to do the same thing.
2. Fight back (with your HEAD). Take to them an argument. You need to use your intelligence so that you make sure you nail the argument. One of the most important things that you need to remember during this is that you need to stay calm. And when i mean calm I do mean CALM.
3. Reflect on the good things you've done and the things you've done right. I'm sure after the shit stuff they told you you're gonna feel bad about the things you've done wrong. Well to me that's not entirely a bad thing. But what you also need to remember is that you have also done lots of things right so don't let it creep into you.
I guess it's already a fact that ignoring is hard as f**k. But once your used to it, you'll understand just how powerful the power of ignorance is. Have a nice day, lads!
1. Keep your head down and walk away or don't answer. This gives them affirmation that you aren't listening. That way, they'll think twice whenever they want to do the same thing.
2. Fight back (with your HEAD). Take to them an argument. You need to use your intelligence so that you make sure you nail the argument. One of the most important things that you need to remember during this is that you need to stay calm. And when i mean calm I do mean CALM.
3. Reflect on the good things you've done and the things you've done right. I'm sure after the shit stuff they told you you're gonna feel bad about the things you've done wrong. Well to me that's not entirely a bad thing. But what you also need to remember is that you have also done lots of things right so don't let it creep into you.
I guess it's already a fact that ignoring is hard as f**k. But once your used to it, you'll understand just how powerful the power of ignorance is. Have a nice day, lads!
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